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26-02-2010 om 16:50
Hi there,
Just a question because i have sleeples nights from this.
My ex husband and i are devorced for 1 year. During the devorce i slept in my girls room till i left the house.
My daughter slept for a couple of month with her father in bed, because she felt safe.
But a year later, my girl sleeps still with her father in one bed!! She is 12 and doenst want to sleep in her own bedroom anymore, also because the room is not kept clean. But most of all, she is used to it to sleep with her father. we do co-parentiong and in my house she has her own room and no problems to sit and sleep there.
The father is not open to learn her to sleep in her own bed. I tried to talk to him what it can course on a longer term but he does not take any action.
I feel sick thinking of it!!
What do u think of this issue and what would u do about it?
Please..
Suza X
26-02-2010 om 17:15
I dont think he will harm her. But my worrie is more that she will emotionele attached to much him to be able to fall asleep. It just cant feel good to fele not safe enoughg to fall asleep in your own bed, on her own.
I am german and dutch is not easy, and i hope that more people give a reaction in english, rather then German.
Or is this only allowed in Dutch?
Thankyou for your reaction.
Suza
01-03-2010 om 23:03
Weekend
Dochter van 12 komt in het weekend nog in het grote bed erbij liggen. Door de week nooit. Geen problemen of zo, gewoon gezellig uitslapen.
Tsjor